The first question to be asked on the first blog to be posted is that, how do you really break up with a friend? A very close friend of yours.
Today, and for the second time, I wondered how one is suppose to break up with a very close friend. I'm one of those people who has certain theories about stuff like believing a relationship would last, being married to the same person till death do them apart, happily ever afters and having best friends who will be in your life forever or by your side when shit goes rough, until I met her.
Ever heard of "easy come, easy go" ? I'm sure i did. Our friendship developed fast enough that in a point, I wondered whether its a good thing or a bad thing for us to be this close this fast, of course that's not anything new, i'm very weird with being close to somebody (Yes, I have issues). And its not like she made it any harder for me to be around her, she welcomed people in her life with arms wide open (please don't start singing the song). She's a good person, a friend indeed when in need (especially when human nature is calling, and there's traffic jam, and there's no closer place to go to except your friend's place and you call her up and say "I'm outside your house, open the door its urgent!").
Things change, people change. But this is not what really happened, I just wanted to be a bit dramatic, you know, like in movies? Ehm, as I was saying, what happened is that I've discovered whats beneath the mask of innocence that she wears most of the time. She's been always like that, small minded about whatever that comes to your mind.
I don't get how people get furious about certain things and never say anything about it. They just keep it to themselves and wait for the perfect moment to explode.
I dislike the fact that she treats her friends as if they were boys, the whole hard to get thing, she's getting it all wrong. One needs to know the difference between friendship and relationship, 'cuz there's a slight difference between those two words.
Note to self; anything that develops fast, will end faster. Slow down, life is not going anywhere.
Today, and for the second time, I wondered how one is suppose to break up with a very close friend. I'm one of those people who has certain theories about stuff like believing a relationship would last, being married to the same person till death do them apart, happily ever afters and having best friends who will be in your life forever or by your side when shit goes rough, until I met her.
Ever heard of "easy come, easy go" ? I'm sure i did. Our friendship developed fast enough that in a point, I wondered whether its a good thing or a bad thing for us to be this close this fast, of course that's not anything new, i'm very weird with being close to somebody (Yes, I have issues). And its not like she made it any harder for me to be around her, she welcomed people in her life with arms wide open (please don't start singing the song). She's a good person, a friend indeed when in need (especially when human nature is calling, and there's traffic jam, and there's no closer place to go to except your friend's place and you call her up and say "I'm outside your house, open the door its urgent!").
Things change, people change. But this is not what really happened, I just wanted to be a bit dramatic, you know, like in movies? Ehm, as I was saying, what happened is that I've discovered whats beneath the mask of innocence that she wears most of the time. She's been always like that, small minded about whatever that comes to your mind.
I don't get how people get furious about certain things and never say anything about it. They just keep it to themselves and wait for the perfect moment to explode.
I dislike the fact that she treats her friends as if they were boys, the whole hard to get thing, she's getting it all wrong. One needs to know the difference between friendship and relationship, 'cuz there's a slight difference between those two words.
Note to self; anything that develops fast, will end faster. Slow down, life is not going anywhere.
well, now you know ;) .. thank you i appreciate your support.
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nice writing and i hope that it was a good learning experience for both of you...i liked the part of "with arms wide open", i almost started to sing the song until i read further then i remembered ur laugh and i started laughing :D
ReplyDeleteOwww having you around is a true bless. Thank you for putting a smile on my face xxx
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